The above image clearly scrutinizes my thought for the day and probably, this Beautifully hectic month. My fingers have been chapped because of daily basis work I did in practical lab. In the beginning, I felt beset for the peeling of skin, burns and cuts. Then a few days later I realized I had no choice I had to built up endurance. And now I reckon, it doesn’t matter any longer. Yes, it took time. Time is something which doesn’t heal anything but gives you a hope to live with the pain.
It’s lurid to see when people go hard on others because they have become nimble with any sized problems they are capable to face. Like the belligerent warriors in wars. They die on just the commands of their masters discarding all possible anticipations of sustenance with their families. It’s absurd to me, I promise.
The point is, in this age none wants to feel for the rest. Do you ask why? Even I ask why? Its intricating.
Bubble up a imagery.
Now ,let your disheartened intimate walk up to you, and vomit out her tension on you , like example , serious illness of her any beloved (god Forbid). Besides , you had crossed that one barbarous phase where you had seen your most pretentious personality pass-away. The intimate tells , “ITS NOTHING YOU KNOW? I HAVE SEEN WORSE ,MY ‘SO AND SO’ DIENG A BRUTAL…. “. Damn it?! You had to say that to perturb her?
On hearing her tension her disturbed life tales , How would you respond?
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Another one. The most common one for you and me.
“The break up.”
You just fell into a break up pit. You are skirmishing to come out of it. Okay?Make this event parallel to, you genuinely toppling into a pit.
” You are struggling, you are feckless,your terrible and succumbed. After a while there you see someone walking by, giving his hand to you but abruptly withdrawing it and blurting , “I had fallen in a similar pit few days ago, I came out , no one helped me back then .why should god be so fair to you? So find your way fella , I am not your hero.”
Straightly contemplating, the one you are sharing your ‘break-up talks would enlighten you to ‘let it go’ brushing off your whining. They would rather be like ,” I have been through a tougher slot buddy . This is such a minute quandary”.
One fails to understand why the other acts differently.
The Last one.
Parental issues. Is like any milieu. It’s in the air. What I mean to signify is that we share the same air the alike issues, we breathe it in and out together. Hence to me, every parental issues are identical. Divorced, Disputes,step-parents,least concerned parents etc etc.
Numberless have proffered it discarding serenity .But the imperceptible cultivates violent emotions, change in behavior and certainly becomes oblivion. Artlessly, saying he or she doesn’t have a normal interaction with anyone because he is fighting ‘how to be’ or ‘what to be?’.
It is harsh to say , “oh! Your parents are getting divorced? Well , it’s alright , my parents are already”. you must be eliciting the truth, but also the reality is you are over it and it’s just begun for her/him.
As long as” Once the storm is over , you wouldn’t remember how you made it through , how you managed to survive.You won’t even be sure, in fact whether the storm is really over. But this one thing is damned certain. When you come out of it you won’t be the same person who walked in”.
So stop stealing the right of the other to feel ,to complain to resent, to cry,to change, to wither off and grow again.
You are discombobulate , you are rugged , you are sloppy.
I am mystified, I am obliged to ask, “Baby ,the pain has made you this impassive?”.
Based on a friend who has transformed all impassive now.
Good day, god bless you .